Author Archives: abfifer

Forgive Your Daughter’s Murderer?

Forgiveness intrigues and intimidates me. I have trouble forgiving the clerk who charged me for a double latte when I got just a single, so the thought of forgiving someone who has committed a crime is intimidating. Jesus warned his followers that, if they didn’t forgive others’ offenses, God would not forgive them their own […]

Michigan’s New Mediator Standards of Conduct Approved

After three years and several iterations, the new Standards of Conduct for Mediators have been approved by Michigan’s State Court Administrator, and will go into effect February 1, 2013. I’ve been involved with this project from the beginning, and it’s been an interesting ride. I blogged about it in November 2011, and again in May […]

“Let Peace Begin With Me”

Let there be peace on earth—and let it begin with me. I attended a Unity church service yesterday, where we closed the service by standing in a circle holding hands and singing that song. I’d like to close—or maybe open—every Peacemaker seminar with that. We all decry the lack of “peace on earth” but we […]

Another Mediator Doesn’t Get Sued

National mediator ethics expert Mel Rubin has pointed out that “mediator malpractice” actions are rare. Instead, when a mediator behaves incompetently or unethically, it shows up as a dispute between the parties regarding the enforceability of the mediated agreement. Motions to set aside agreements are, he says, in reality a mediator malpractice action. Dispute Resolution […]

Michigan Court of Appeals Publishes Case on Enforceability of Mediated Agreement

Michigan now has its first published case on the enforceability of a mediated agreement. The case, Vittiglio v Vittiglio, involved a divorce mediation that resulted in an agreement. Prior to entry of the divorce judgment, the wife sought to disavow the mediated agreement, alleging that she was in effect coerced into consenting to it. Consistent […]