Training in Evaluative Mediation?

Should mediation training include evaluative as well as facilitative mediation? A recent law review article complains that mediators are trained only in the facilitative style of mediation, yet the market demands an evaluative style, leaving mediators ill-equipped for real-world mediation. The article, Practical Considerations in Mediation Training: Should Mediators be Trained to Adapt to the Circumstances of Each Case?, 11 Appalachian J.L. 185 (2012) by Professor Kenneth F. Dunham, of Faulkner University’s Thomas Goode Jones School of Law, draws on research to show that business parties and their attorneys prefer evaluative mediators, leaving facilitative-trained mediators to “find their own way to the directional/evaluative approach preferred by” most mediation consumers.

As a mediation trainer who has trained mediators only in the facilitative style for twenty years, I’ve heard this complaint before. Based on my own experience as a mediator, buttressed by national leaders in the field such as Josh Stulberg, Lela Love and Kimberlee Kovach, I prefer facilitative over evaluative, for a variety of reasons. The terms were coined by Prof. Leonard Riskin in a landmark article, Understanding Mediators’ Orientations, Strategies, and Techniques: A Grid for the Perplexed, 1 Harvard Negotiation Law Review 7 (1996) to explain the mediator’s level of involvement in a particular outcome to the mediation. In a subsequent article, Prof. Riskin reframed “facilitative” as “elicitive,” to clarify that this mediator style elicits solution options from the parties; and he re-cast “evaluative” as “directive” to clarify how this mediator style directs the parties to an outcome that the mediator believes to be fair and acceptable. Decisionmaking in Mediation: The New Old Grid and the New New Grid System, 79 Notre Dame L. Rev. 101 (2003). Prof. Riskin contends that a good mediator ought to be adept along the full spectrum from facilitative/elicitive to evaluative/directive, and I agree.

We train in the facilitative style because it’s harder to learn. Throughout the training, people are fighting their natural inclination to “just tell the parties what to do.” A professional who is selected by parties who know and respect her, to mediate a case where she has subject-matter expertise, will instinctively conduct an evaluative mediation, and do just fine, without any training. Prof. Dunham’s survey indicates that mediators would still like some training in how to conduct evaluative mediation. I don’t think there’s much out there, and there should be.

But is the problem with the training, or with the market? As Prof. Dunham notes, attorneys gravitate towards the evaluative approach because it’s more like judicial settlement conferences and thus more familiar. If the market is thus demanding evaluative mediators, one solution is to change our training offerings, but the other solution is to educate clients to possibilities outside of their comfort zone. Mediators who use facilitative skills—asking questions, involving the clients, searching for creative, non-monetary options, exploring underlying interests and relationships—can help educate mediation consumers about the benefits of a more facilitative approach to mediation. My facilitative-mediator colleagues and I could tell story after story of cases where a narrow-evaluative approach would have resulted in impasse, or an unsatisfactory monetary payment, but the facilitative-broad approach resulted in creative outcomes that pleased everyone. Facilitative-trained mediators expand options for mediation users even when users think they want an evaluative approach.

So, yes, offer some training in how to mediate in the evaluative style, but not at the expense of facilitative mediation training.

Electronic Correspondence

With apologies to the U.S. Postal Service, I just took another step towards electronic-only correspondence: for the first time, I sent out information to mediation parties solely via email. Until now*, I have always followed up the email and attachments with a printed paper version sent via U.S. mail. This time, with the attorneys’ consent, I skipped the paper step. It seems now like the only  mailed-in-an-envelope items are checks, and documents with a signature — and these too are becoming ever less dependent on paper and “snail mail.”

*Well, at least the last fifteen years or so. I’ve been doing this long enough to admit to remembering well the days when all business correspondence was only via U.S.-mailed paper.

In fact, the role of a handwritten-in-ink signature is changing. It used to be essential for all kinds of official documents, including the agreement to mediate, and the resulting mediation agreement. But we all seem to accept documents transmitted electronically that either do not have a hand-written signature, or have an electronic signature, which doesn’t really convey the same meaning as a handwritten-in-ink signature, but is acceptable nonetheless. I wonder how mediation agreements will be formalized ten years from now; will parties still sign a sheet of paper with the flourish of an ink pen? Or will there be a new electronic way to signify individual consent?

Too Many Standards of Conduct?

Too Many Standards of Conduct?

History of Michigan’s Standards of Conduct for Mediators
The State Court Administrative office convened a committee a couple years ago to review Michigan’s Standards of Conduct for Mediators and recommend any needed changes. Michigan’s Standards were adopted in 2001, based on the Model Standards of Conduct for Mediators of general civil cases – but the Model Standards were revised in 2005 and it seemed appropriate at least to consider whether Michigan’s needed similar revisions.

Michigan’s current Standards are very cursory; they run to two pages, whereas the Model Standards go on for eight pages. Michigan’s Standards basically took the first sentence or two from each of the nine Model Standards, without the accompanying explanation that fleshes out the principle. For example, Michigan’s current Standard on self-determination consists of two sentences, stating that mediation is based on party self-determination, with a simple definition of the term. The Model Standards contain four paragraphs on this Standard, delving into much more detail about the extent, timing, and challenges of implementing the principle of party self-determination.

Not surprisingly, the committee that reviewed Michigan’s Standards of Conduct (of which I was a member) determined that they needed a thorough revision. We felt that the current Standards did not provide nearly enough guidance to mediators on how to deal with ethical dilemmas, nor did they give enough information to alert mediators to potential ethical dilemmas. For example, mediators have gotten into trouble for failing to recognize that a party has, by the end of the mediation, lost her ability to make good decisions—in legal terminology, that she no longer has the capacity to contract. She may have been fine at 9 am, but by 6 pm, she is tired, her medication is wearing off, or whatever, so she later tries to get out of the agreement and blames the mediator for forcing her to sign it. (A famous example is Olam v. Congress Mortgage, 68 F. Supp. 2d 1110 (ND Calif, 1999). See also, Guthrie v Guthrie, 259 Ga App 751 (2003)). The Model Standards thus specify that mediators have an ethical obligation, throughout the mediation, to ensure a party’s capacity to mediate. Michigan’s Standards nowhere mention this important principle.

Proposed Revised Standards of Conduct
The State Court Administrative Office (SCAO) has therefore proposed a revised version of the Standards of Conduct for Mediators that not only provides the kind of detailed guidance found in the Model Standards, but also covers all types of mediations, including domestic relations, general civil, and probate. I wrote about highlights of these proposed Standards in my blog in November 2011. SCAO posted the Standards for comment this past winter, and convened the Standards Committee again last month to address the comments received. A modified revision will be forthcoming shortly.

Meanwhile, I have had the privilege of training Michigan mediators in these proposed Standards, and have received a wide range of reactions to them. Mediators with a varied practice are generally relieved to have only one set of Standards to consult. Some appreciate the specific reminders in this lengthier version—e.g., that fee arrangements should be in writing, that a mediator should withdraw from illegal agreements, that both the parties and the mediator should determine who participates in the mediation.

Complaints about the proposed Standards
But others have expressed concern about these new Standards. Will these more specific provisions give parties more grounds for grievances against their mediator? Is it too much for a mediator to try to remember? Do they set the bar too high? If no one was complaining about mediator behavior, why mess with success? Did we really need new Standards of conduct? One mediator told me sadly that these proposed Standards will take away her joy in mediating, because now she’ll be worried at every turn that she might be violating one of the innumerable provisions. Another commented that, if he had learned all these Standards when he first got trained to mediate, he would never mediate, out of fear.

A lawyer-mediator complained to me that it’s in the nature of committees to complicate the simple, and to elaborate on the concise. He sees the current Standards more like the Constitution—a concise, pithy document–, and the proposed Standards more like regulations that number into the thousands, anticipating problems no one has. “Regulations should not overwhelm the mediation process and reduce it to the IRS code, beset with minefields,” he said.

My response to the complaints
Parties rarely sue, or even complain about, their mediator—and even if they did, I don’t think that’s a good reason to reject more thorough standards of conduct. The absence of complaints about mediators doesn’t mean that mediators can stagnate; we should always strive to improve our practice. I see the proposed Standards as a much more helpful tool for mediators, both outside of and during a mediation, than the current Standards, which never seem to answer my particular question regarding ethical obligations. I don’t think the proposed Standards set a higher bar than the current Standards—at least, not too much higher. I think they provide better explanations of what that bar is, and how to attain it. But the bottom line is that I’m not objective. I helped draft these Standards, so there’s definitely some pride of authorship. I’m sort of a “geek” about Standards; they give me comfort – I love knowing that better minds than mine have carefully thought about potential problems and how to avoid or navigate through them.

What do you think? Are Michigan mediators better off with ten pages of ethical standards, or two?

“Dispute” or “Conflict”?

I have always used the words “conflict” and “dispute” inter-changeably. The dictionary definitions seem to show, as law school professors would say, a distinction without a difference. So I am grateful to Brian Muldoon of HeartWorks Mediation Center, keynote speaker at this year’s ANDRI, for offering a way to distinguish them: He says a “dispute” is two or more contesting positions claiming to be true or just, whereas a “conflict” involves a difference that tends towards destruction or domination. Dispute is linear; conflict is complex.
My simplistic understanding of this distinction is that a dispute involves our rational minds, whereas a conflict involves our emotions. If this is true, then the two are related in that a legal dispute results from an underlying conflict. So, our goals in mediation are both to resolve the dispute and to resolve the conflict.
In the law, we appropriately use the word “dispute” because the legal process uses facts and logic to determine which position is “right.” Thus, “alternative dispute resolution” is the proper term to describe alternatives to litigation. But I’m not sure that “conflict management” is the correct term, given this distinction, because conflict management often offers superficial tools that do not address the passion of conflict.
In Christian peacemaking, I’ve tended to use the word “conflict” and shy away from “dispute,” without having a good reason for doing so. Based on Muldoon’s distinction, this is valid, because biblical peacemaking addresses the problem wholistically, recognizing that the dispute/conflict affects people mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
I’m going to try to be more careful about which word I use from now on and see whether this distinction helps.

Paying the Mediator

One of the conundrums for us alternative dispute resolution folk is what to do when a party does not pay us for services performed. We tout the disadvantages of suing, but what other recourse do we have when a party breaches its contract to pay the mediator? It would be appropriate for us to mediate the fee dispute, but typically the non-paying party won’t return phonecalls or emails. That’s when litigation looks tempting, because it forces the defendant to pay attention to the matter.
I mediated an employment case two years ago, that resulted in the employee being re-hired. Since I knew the employee had a really good income, it was especially disconcerting to me that they refused to pay my mediation fee. I could not contact the employee directly, only their attorney, who promised to work on it but eventually quit responding to my emails, letters and phonecalls.
Some courts ensure that the mediator’s fee is paid before the lawsuit is dismissed, e.g., Grand Traverse, but Kent County Circuit Court does not. So I asked my peers what I should do. One of them told me that she had a similar situation, and she sent the invoice regularly for two years until she finally received payment. So I decided to do that. It felt futile, mailing off that invoice to the attorney month after month, but I wasn’t sure what else to do.
Lo and behold, I received an email from the employee last week about paying me, and the check arrived in the mail today—just a little over two years since we finished up the mediation.
In the meantime, I’ve changed my practice: I require a much larger deposit up-front, and I will call off the scheduled mediation if a party does not provide the deposit by the day of the mediation. It’s not just a trust issue; I think it’s actually fairer to the client to be clear about the cost of mediation, so they can factor that into their negotiations.
And when a party doesn’t pay, we mediators may have to use a little ADR ourselves.